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SOULMATES FLEE, FIGHT OR FORGIVE

Updated: Jul 10

SOULMATES

FLEE, FIGHT OR FORGIVE

WE HAVE TO MAKE THE DECISION

By: Lady Kenyatta Ruth Foy


We posses locks

that fit keys, and keys to fit locks.

We felt safe enough to open our locks, allowing

our truest selves to step up & step out, we’re now able to completely and honestly live out our true meanings and bask there in. We’ love one another

for who we are and not for who we're

pretending to be.




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We unveil the best part of the other. No matter

what goes wrong around us, with God and

each other we're safe in our own paradise “wherewith the secret place of the most high occupies.” We share our deepest longings and our senses of direction. We’re eagles,

together our direction is, “up above the storms and clouds.” Our Affinities are written in the sky. Collectively we make our lives come to life.

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FLEE, FIGHT OR FORGIVE

"Having loved His own…He loved them to the end."



John 13:1 NKJV

FLEE, FIGHT, OR FORGIVE


We handle our relationship problems in one of four ways: FLEE, FIGHT, FREEZE or FORGIVE…

Some choose to FLEE. They leave the relationship and start again elsewhere, though they are frequently surprised when the condition resurfaces on the other side of the fence as well.




Others FIGHT. As a result, their relationships become combat zones, and

stress becomes a way of life.




If you're wise, you will choose the way of Christ: FORGIVE







"Having loved His own…He loved them to the end." Jesus knew the feeling of being stuck with someone. For over three years, He ran with the same team.




He saw the same twelve or so faces around the table. So how did He stay so dedicated to His disciples?




Was it difficult for Jesus to love Peter, knowing he would someday curse Him?




Was it tough to trust Thomas, knowing he would someday question His resurrection?




How did Jesus resist the urge to recruit a new group of followers?





John wanted to crush one enemy,





and Peter sliced off the ear of another.



Only days before Jesus' death,




His disciples were fighting about which of them was the best!




How was He able to love people who were difficult to like?




Here is the answer: Jesus didn't measure them by their looks, IQ, talent,

possessions, or personality;




no, He measured them by their potential.




And ultimately, they changed and lived up to His expectations.




Not in all things or at all times. But When that happened, He forgave them and taught them that love is a commitment we make

first to ourselves, and then to others.



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For the love of all kind!

Love is blind!




It do not see gender or color,

nor is it a waste of time!


The idiom (Love Is Blind) used to say that people do not see the faults of the people that they love.



Today the phrase ‘love is blind’ is one of the most common comments people make about what people who are in love do, and how they behave. It’s what friends say in response to such things as the apparent incompatibility between couples; the silly behaviour of someone as a result of being in love; of not being practical about the consequences of the things they do because they’re in love, and all sorts of things that people do because of that overwrought condition.



Shakespeare put all that together in the simple statement ‘love is blind.’ The idea itself comes long before Shakespeare’s time, from one of the images of Cupid (a winged Roman god of love) in which he wears a blindfold.


We often think of Cupid as blind, even though that is only one of the versions of him. He appears in many different forms – as a baby, a child, and a teenager, not always wearing the blindfold. He sometimes carries a bow and has a quiver of arrows on his back. That has given rise to the tradition of his being able to make people fall in love by shooting them with one of his arrows. If an arrow strikes you that’s it: you immediately fall in love. He doesn’t shoot you deliberately, as he can’t see you: anyone can suddenly, out of the blue, be wounded by one of Cupid’s arrows. There is no sense or reason in it because ‘love is blind.’




It means that when you start loving someone genuinely, you will accept him/her wholeheartedly despite of his/her flaws. Love is blind because even though that person is a criminal or a murderer, once you'll fall in love with that person, you'll see him as the most wonderful person you've ever met in your entire life.



When you are in the midst of deep love, when the world is filled with rainbows and butterflies, everything your partner does is right. This is where the term “love is blind” comes from. You are so “blinded” by love that you cannot see any of your lover's flaws.



My husband and I have endured our fair share of quarreling amongst ourselves. We’re both pugnacious and melodramatic. Our paroxysms always mend just as any wound does. Together we sharpen one another’s character. Any task of human exchange have its seasons of rigorous trials and errors, that’s where motives of the hearts are revealed. Our Love connection is commensurate to our logo “We Fit” and the biblical metaphorical: “the wealth of the wicked is laid up for the just”. The flawed goad’s of both our direct relatives are the glue that bonded us together. We began to perceive each other from a different set of eyes, in layman’s term our perspectives changed over time, as our strengths were wrapped up in our struggles!

Now I totally understand why the Apostle Paul beseech us to embrace our struggles!



“Evil pursueth sinners: But to the righteous good shall be repaid. A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children: And the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just.”

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I fell in love with my current partner who had a completely different set of values and career objectives, but my love was so blind that I was willing to change my goals for him. ' On the other hand Kenneth couldn't see how toxic his relationship with family members had become as his love was blinded by his previous partner's manipulative behavior and tactics of divide and conquer!




“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong. I am become a fool in glorying; ye have compelled me: for I ought to have been commended of you: for in nothing am I behind the very chiefest apostles, though I be nothing.”


In truth Love Is Not Actually Blind


This means that the person in love sees themselves and the object of their love more clearly. "Love is not blind, love sees." Being in love in the sense of loving someone as "another self" means that you should see yourself more clearly. As a reflection in life’s mirror of yourself!

Most couples who are blinded by their love for each other, really are never given grace, space or forgiveness which allows one another to see each other as their true selves while healing.





Bible Verses About Struggle



2 Corinthians 12:9-10 - And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.   (Read More...)



1 Corinthians 10:13 - There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.



Romans 5:3-5 - And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;   (Read More...)



Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.



1 John 4:4 - Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.



Psalms 23:1-6 - (A Psalm of David.) The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.   (Read More...)



John 1:5 - And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.



Romans 14:1 - Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, but not to doubtful disputations.



Romans 8:1 - There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.



Philippians 2:3-5 - Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.   (Read More...)



Philippians 4:13 - I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.



James 1:2 - My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;



Exodus 14:14 - The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.



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