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The Five Love language’s

Updated: Jul 10





What are the love languages?


We all give and receive love in 5 different ways:








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These are called 'love languages' - a concept created by Dr. Gary Chapman through his long-time work as a marriage counsellor.


Have you ever questioned whether your partner still loves you?

From time to time.

Well guess what? You’re not alone.


You just might be speaking a different love language

than your partner.


Seek to know and affirm and put into practice your partner’s language!


Do The Work That’s Required, To Obtain The Best Possible Results and Oneness With Your Partner, Spouse, or Family Members & Friends Alike…

Note, That Setting Healthy Boundaries To All Relationships That Are Toxic, Is The Highest Form Of Self-Care.!

This Fact Is Scientifically and Medically Proven Through Research!


Now~ Remember We all give and receive love in 5 different ways:











1.) Words of affirmation

Affirmation is the action or process of Affirming something or being Affirmed.

It is to be emotionally supported or encouraged.


When words of affirmation is your love language, words build you up. You thrive on spoken affection, praise, encouragement, and compliments. Harsh words and criticism can bother you for a long time.


2.) Acts of Service

Service is the action of helping or doing work for someone. It’s an act of assistance.


Anything that your partner does willingly to ease your workload is a sign of love to you. You feel cared for when your partner vacuums before you get to it or makes you breakfast as a surprise. On the other hand, broken promises or laziness can make you feel unimportant.  Acts of service is the rarest form of love language.


People who thrive off this love language will feel most loved when their partner does something for them, (preferably without being asked). This could be tidying their space, cooking a meal, running errands or anything that takes a task out of their time.






3.) Receiving gifts

Gifts are things  given Willingly to someone without payment; it is a present

or a donation

Bequest.


When you speak this love language, a thoughtful gift shows to you that you are special. In contrast, generic gifts and forgotten special events have the opposite effect. This love language isn’t necessarily materialistic – it could be as simple as receiving your favourite snack after a bad day.


4.) Quality time

Quality Time: Sometimes abbreviated as QT, it is an informal reference to time spent with close family, partners or friends that is in some way important, special, productive or profitable to one or everyone involved.


To you, nothing says you’re loved like undivided attention. When your partner is truly present (and not looking at their phone), it makes you feel important.  Failure to actively listen or going long periods without one-on-one time can make you feel unloved.


5.) Physical touch

Physical touch refers to expressing and receiving affection through touch, physical closeness, and other forms of physical connection. Kissing, hugging, holding hands, and sex are all ways of showing love through the physical touch love language.


Holding hands, kisses, hugs, and other touches are your preferred way to show and receive love. Appropriation of touches convey warmth and safety, while physical neglect can drive a wedge between you and your partner.    





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And mindfulness of the five

love languages can improve your relationships tremendously!


While also Catapulting your interactions and intimacy to heightened heights and deeper Depths!


Do not be alarmed nor disappointed nor dismayed!


Most of us have one or two preferred love languages – often different than our significant other's.


Expressing your love through your preferred love language, Oftentimes goes unnoticed by your partner. There are several ways to express yourself, that is through empathy, compassion, kindness and healthy communication of your love language and preferences to others,

by all means necessary do not operate in your emotions. This will only lead to quarrels, division and resentment.


Say that your love language is gifts, and you often surprise your partner with thoughtful gifts. How does it make you feel when they just have a quick look at your thoughtful present?


Meanwhile, your partner hardly values gifts but appreciates acts of service.

It would mean the world to them if you did chores around the house instead of buying gifts.

This act or language will make your partner feel loved?











Across the nation, survey respondents revealed that the love language Americans love to receive most is quality time.



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Sporadic bursts of interest are arguably the most toxic love language as it leaves us wanting and craving more.


Psychologically speaking, it creates cravings for attention BECAUSE we don't know when or how we're going to receive affection from the other person again.


The most toxic relationship pattern is the demand & withdraw pattern, research finds.


One partner — often, but not always the woman — makes demands, trying to pressure the other to change.


The other partner — often, but not always the man — wants to avoid discussing the issue, so he or she withdraws themselves all together!



You can do the free love languages test on the 5 love languages website.








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